For so many who are seeking a deeper, more connected spiritual life, the culture of the world around us directly influences how we understand and relate to spiritual practices. Often, many are led to believe "listening to God" is something to be achieved. Culture suggests that discipleship and spiritual growth are about working harder and doing more; more rigorous study, more rigid discipline, more effort. This understanding of spiritual and personal growth is deeply problematic and, quite simply, directly opposes the true ethos of contemplative Christian tradition.